Jan 28, 2022
In this episode I wanted to
share a simple concept that I learned from another coach that hit
home. It all comes down to the HOW, and wanting to have the
perfect plan in place before we start anything.
1)
The how is irrelevant. We only ever learn the how in reverse.
Try to think of one time in your life when the “how” was shown to
you beforehand and you followed that roadmap to a T and it worked
out perfectly.
2) The how is only seen in reverse, in
hindsight and we know hindsight is 20/20. We are never meant
to see the how ahead of time. We are responsible for seeing
and owning the vision of what we want to create and then allowing
ourselves to get into action to create and bring that vision to
life.
3) The how is actually in the now. It is created by trying, taking an action step, falling down, course correcting, starting over and applying those lessons learned to the next step. We are creating the how as we go.
4) We may learn tools and tips from other coaches about how their how worked, and it can be a shortcut for us in some way shape or form, but they can’t give us our roadmap. They can help us to see what’s possible and help us uncover what is blocking us from seeing our own how, but it is not their job to give it to us. It is ours to create.
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Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker and Life
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Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of
“When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a
parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of
normal experimentation.
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