Aug 26, 2019
#73: “The Power of Ownership...What Does it Mean?"
In this Monday Mindset Episode, I am talking about the power of ownership. Ownership is truly the cornerstone for all of the changes in my own personal life. Learning how to own my own choices helped me let go of all the anger, hurt and resentment in my life. Learning the power of ownership led to freedom in my life. Freedom from the judgement of others, freedom from the shame of my story. Learning to own my choices truthfully led me to owning my own life!!
In this episode we talk about:
1. We all have stories, whether we borrow them from others, or we just accept that it’s the way our life has to be. When we accept it as our story, we let it limit and control what we do in our lives. We miss opportunities because we don’t see them when we are hiding in our stories. Owning our stories is the first step to changing them.
2. If you don’t OWN your story, it OWNS you!!
3. If your story gives you feelings of guilt or shame, then you owe it to yourself and to others in your life to learn how to stand ON it and not IN it! You deserve to find the FREEDOM from learning to OWN your story!
4. When we are taking responsibility for everyone else’s behaviour, choices and trying to fix, manage or control everyone else’s behaviour, we are putting our most valuable resource of our energy into things that won’t create any change in our lives. We must put that energy into ourselves, and into creating change in our own lives. Being the change, we wish to see in this world is how we can create change in the lives of others.
5. Learning how to unwrap or unpack our stories helps us to see all the details. This helps us to take the birds eye view and embrace the lessons we learned, to see our role in the story, to see our gifts and to see how we can make a difference for others. Someone is praying for a solution and you have the answers.
6. Tap into the energy, the emotions, and the feelings and that allows you to connect to others. It allows for others to see you as you truly are. No more hiding.
7. Ownership is the first step to creating change in your life. It all starts with owning your choices first!
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About me –
Marsha Vanwynsberghe — Author, Speaker and Life Coach
Marsha is the 6-time Bestselling Author of “When She Stopped Asking Why”. She shares her lessons as a parent who dealt with teen substance abuse far past the level of normal experimentation.
Through her programs, coaching and live events for women, Marsha is on a mission to teach you how to “Own Your Choices” in your own life. She teaches women how to own their stories, lead themselves and pay it forward to others by creating businesses that serve, support and impact others.